{"id":2389,"date":"2015-07-30T09:48:56","date_gmt":"2015-07-30T16:48:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wallyontheweb.com\/wallysweek\/?page_id=2389"},"modified":"2015-07-30T10:52:36","modified_gmt":"2015-07-30T17:52:36","slug":"terry","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.wallyontheweb.com\/home\/terry\/","title":{"rendered":"Terry – A Tribute"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ve enjoyed a lot of firsts in my life.\u00a0 My first crush (Roxy Fox in Kindergarten), my first SAG job (\u201cMurphy Brown\u201d), and my first meeting of a President (Jimmy Carter) in 1988.\u00a0 But there are also unpleasant firsts in life as well which, while notable, are not necessarily among the fondest milestones of my life.\u00a0 This past week I experienced one of those firsts, and I\u2019m still trying to wrap my head around it.\u00a0 It was the first time I ever had a best friend pass away.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m aware that, as I advance in age, this will most likely happen with a lot more frequency.\u00a0 And I\u2019ve had friends pass away in the past, but they were friends who had become acquaintances; the friendship softening with the passage of time. Never before had I experienced the feeling of realization that I would never see a person again, considering that this friend had been a regular staple in my life for 20 years.<\/p>\n

On July 21, 2015 my friend and contractor Terry Crisp finally succumbed to the numerous health issues which had been plaguing him for many years.\u00a0 Terry\u2019s first love was a tie between carpentry (which he was very good at) and playing Elvis (which he was very good at).\u00a0 I\u2019ll never forget the day in 1995 when I was working at Universal Studios doing the Beetlejuice stage show.\u00a0 Knowing that I liked to mess with the audience when I came out on stage as \u201cThe Ghost with the Most,\u201d the Stage Manager called me on the intercom backstage to tell me that Elvis was in the audience.\u00a0 He had a clear view from the lighting booth of all the audience members and would sometimes give me a \u201cheads up\u201d if anyone interesting was seated in the audience before the show started.\u00a0 It allowed me to get a jumpstart on comedy material I could devise before the show started so I could be ready with a cacophony of funny lines.<\/p>\n

Terry had come to the park with some friends and was wearing gold rings, sunglasses, a white shirt and had jet black Elvis hair and sideburns.\u00a0 Ohhh\u2026this was going to be fun!\u00a0 During the pre-show I sought him out and said to the audience, \u201cIn this show we\u2019re in the business of raising the dead, but this is ridiculous.\u00a0 Elvis stand up and take a bow!\u201d\u00a0 He stood up, struck an Elvis pose and waved at the audience.\u00a0\u00a0 He was loving every minute of the attention.\u00a0 I continued to poke fun at him all through the show.\u00a0\u00a0 After the performance he waited outside the theater where the castmembers would gather to do a Meet-N-Greet.\u00a0 We got a photo together and we exchanged numbers.\u00a0 He was a good sport and, as an Elvis fan, a kindred spirit.<\/p>\n

We stayed in touch and became fast friends.\u00a0 He showed me some of the things he had created and constructed, and it was obvious that he had a real gift for working with wood, metal and construction tools.\u00a0 When I bought my house in 2000 he was the first call I made.\u00a0 There were certain things I wanted to do to the interior of the house, and he got right to work making my ideas a reality.\u00a0 I enjoyed throwing him the most insane ideas, and watching him figure out how to make them possible.\u00a0 And he had plenty of good ideas of his own which contributed to the fun atmosphere of Planet Wallywood enormously.<\/p>\n

Fifteen years later, you can\u2019t go into any room in my house without seeing something that he made.\u00a0 The first major project he created was the main showcase on the second floor, which houses a good portion of my toy collection.\u00a0 It has custom lighting and removable glass shelves so I can move things around and change up the displays.\u00a0 The final project he did was to create a \u201cWizard of Oz\u201d Tin Man bust by hand out of copper sheet metal.\u00a0 It\u2019s probably his most amazing accomplishment among all of the numerous things he had created for \u201cPlanet Wallywood.\u201d\u00a0 When people walk into the Puppet Room where the \u201cOz\u201d busts are displayed, their common reaction is to gasp in disbelief.\u00a0 He was a true artist in many ways.<\/p>\n

For many years Terry had struggled with alcoholism.\u00a0 It had gotten to critical mass in the late 90\u2019s and early 2000\u2019s.\u00a0 But when he finally decided to go on the wagon and join AA in the late 2000\u2019s, he visited my house and came clean.\u00a0 He said he had hidden bottles of booze all around my house so he could imbibe while working.\u00a0 Together we found every one of them and poured them down the drain.\u00a0 I was proud of him.\u00a0 I knew he had a problem with alcohol, and despite my constant encouragement to seek help, I wasn\u2019t sure he would ever do anything about it.\u00a0 Clearly he had endured enough and was ready to make a change.\u00a0 At the time he passed away he was on his way to 6 years of sobriety.<\/p>\n

But the years of alcohol abuse had worn on his body something fierce, and many of the effects were irreversible.\u00a0 The damage had been done.\u00a0 During the time has was active in AA he became a sponsor and aided countless people deal with their disease and the effects of weening themselves off alcohol.\u00a0 We\u2019ll probably never know an exact number of how many people he ended up helping, but it was a lot.<\/p>\n

During the last three years of his life he finally found marital bliss with an old friend of his who had gotten back in touch with me.\u00a0 Her two teenage sons were fans of mine from the Batman \u201cArkham\u201d games and she e-mailed me to see if I remembered her.\u00a0 We corresponded and she asked if her sons could meet me and get autographs.\u00a0 When she brought them over I started thinking that Terry might enjoy getting back in touch with her after all these years. He could really use the pick-me-up!\u00a0 About 8 months later Terry and Michelle were married.<\/p>\n

Luckily, Michelle had been a nurse during her career. So it was fortuitous that they found each other at that point in Terry\u2019s life, given his declining health.\u00a0 She helped him along with medications, doctor visits and physical and spiritual support. But it was becoming clear that all the years of alcohol abuse was starting to have a domino effect on his body.\u00a0 It seemed like he was being admitted into the hospital for a different affliction every month.\u00a0 So when the news came of his passing I wasn\u2019t completely surprised.\u00a0 Through it all he never lost his sense of humor, and his poor health never affected his big heart; his compassion for others\u2019 needs.<\/p>\n

During a recent visit to Planet Wallywood to fix a few things around the house it became clear that he wasn\u2019t going to be able to work much longer.\u00a0 He would get fatigued quickly, and he wasn\u2019t able to get up ladders or squat down easily.\u00a0 The final month of his life was spent selling off the majority of his tools in his shop so he could downsize to a smaller home.\u00a0 He was devastated.\u00a0 Not only was he no longer able to perform as Elvis because of his poor health, he was now no longer able to do what he loved more than anything; carpentry, wood crafting and creating.\u00a0 I told him it might be God\u2019s way of telling him to retire and enjoy a simple life with Michelle.\u00a0 He said that was what everyone was telling him, but he didn\u2019t sound convinced.\u00a0 I could tell he was hurting and the walls were caving in.<\/p>\n

When Terry\u2019s brother called me on July 21, 2015 to tell me that Terry had passed away that morning, he said that it was obvious Terry had lost the will to live.\u00a0 He simply didn\u2019t have it in him to fight any longer. The insurmountable health issues were too much for him to take.<\/p>\n

At his memorial service I purposely sat in the very last row, while his immediate family sat in the first few rows.\u00a0 I did that on purpose.\u00a0 I knew that I would be chuckling and snickering through some of the service as the wild, wacky times he and I used to share would flood my memory.\u00a0 I didn\u2019t shed one tear throughout the service, and I think Terry would have wanted it that way. But I smiled a lot in joyous reflection.\u00a0 Boy we had some good times!<\/p>\n

As I sifted through all the photos I had of Terry, so I could scan them and send them to his wife for the memorial service slideshow, it occurred to me that he and I never really had any \u201cnormal\u201d pictures taken together.\u00a0 I\u2019m always dressed as some zany character, and he\u2019s always there beside me playing along.<\/p>\n

In addition to benefitting from his amazing carpentry work in my house, I also benefitted from being able to spend afternoons with him while he worked.\u00a0 While I worked on other stuff, he was busy crafting and creating our latest project.\u00a0 It allowed us to chat, learn about each other\u2019s lives, talk about future projects, exchange thoughts and feelings about life, and generally give each other a whole lot of crap. He was REALLY good at the latter part!<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll always consider him a brother, a friend, a confidante, and one of the best human beings I\u2019ve ever had the pleasure to know.\u00a0 Rest in Peace, my friend.<\/p>\n

Terry\u2026has left the building.<\/p>\n

\"As<\/a>

As I started sorting through pictures of my late friend Terry Crisp, I noticed that the only shots I have of he and I together are all funny, wacky shots; where I’m dressed up as some zany character. Here’s the first shot Terry and I took together when we met at Universal Studios in the Beetlejuice show. This was 20 years ago in 1995.<\/p><\/div>\n

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Here’s Terry and I at a Halloween party back in the early 2000’s.<\/p><\/div>\n

\"When<\/a>

When I would go out as Tony Clifton, Terry would come along as “E”…Tony’s bodyguard.<\/p><\/div>\n

\"When<\/a>

When we filmed our pilot “Uncle Davver’s Really Scary Movie Show,” Terry played Zomb-E in a segment.<\/p><\/div>\n

\"I<\/a>

I found this great shot of Terry and Warwick Davis from the film “Leprechaun 3.”<\/p><\/div>\n

\"This<\/a>

This picture still makes me laugh. A guy who looks like Elvis, but wearing medical scrubs, eating donuts. It’s all sorts of odd!<\/p><\/div>\n

\"The<\/a>

The day Terry told me about joining AA, we commemorated the day in pictures.<\/p><\/div>\n

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One time at dinner, Terry laughed so hard I thought he was going to pass out. I believe the joke had something to do with an area of his wife’s anatomy.<\/p><\/div>\n

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Terry doing one of the things he loved best.<\/p><\/div>\n

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Terry and my friend Officer Mark at my 50th birthday party.<\/p><\/div>\n

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Here he is rocking out at one of my birthday parties at the Silent Movie Theatre.<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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